Preparing for your future: a conversation guide

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Talking about older age and end of life plans can be very challenging. Some people find it difficult to have these types of conversations, but planning now means that you take the steps you need so you can live the life you want as you age.

This guide will help you address some of the challenges connected to discussing ageing and end of life plans. It is designed to help you plan for your older age in a way that is safe and right for you.

Future planning – or planning ahead for older age – is a four-step process:

Step one: Thinking about what you want your older age to be like.

Step two: Talking to people you trust about what you want for your older age.

Step three: Writing down what you want so that there is a record of your wishes and decisions.

Step four: Formalising your arrangements in legal documents.

You could ask your community group, social group, or seniors group to do a session with you.

Conversation guide to future planning (English version for the general community)
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Conversation guide to future planning (English version for the Vietnamese community)
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Conversation guide to future planning (Vietnamese version for the Vietnamese community)
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Conversation guide to future planning (English version for the LGBTQI+ community)
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Conversation guide to future planning (Turkish version for the Turkish community)
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Conversation guide to future planning (Simplified Chinese version for the Chinese community)
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Conversation guide to future planning (Italian version for the Italian community)
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Conversation guide to future planning (Arabic version for the Arab community)
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When you have finished the guide, we recommend you formalise your arrangements in legal documents, such as an Enduring Power of Attorney.

This resource was last updated on 29 January 2025. This is legal information only and does not constitute legal advice. You should always contact a lawyer for advice specific to your situation. Please view our disclaimer for more information.

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